Today was a huge milestone for our family, I mean HUGE!!!! Elias sat through an entire haircut and Tommy got his first facial shave!!! I choke up just thinking about it!! Elias got his very first hair cut when he was a little over 1 and it was the perfect experience. Perhaps because he didn’t know what was happening, but he didn’t move, he didn’t cry, he didn’t whine, he posed for pictures. IT WAS PERFECT!!!
Then came the 2nd and I’m not sure what triggered the change but it didn’t go so well; he hesitated, he cried, but he got through it with encouragement. The 3rd was more challenging. He began to fight it, he kicked, he screamed, he cried, he wiggle and moved, he didn’t get through the entire session! By the 4th and 5th attempts, Elias was boldly refusing. He was kicking, screaming, crying hysterically. It was a tantrum at its finest and anxiety for all us involved. Toddler haircuts increasingly became a dreaded task.
The Struggle
I tried every recommended tip and trick on toddler haircuts: bribes, toys, phone time, candy, I even took him asleep one time. We tried cutting his hair with scissors only, we encouraged him to hold the clippers & scissors (with supervision of course), we had him watch his little brother get a haircut before his got his to show him everything would be okay. I went to every recommend kid friendly, adult, specialized salon and barber, most of them turned us way as soon he began refusing to even sit on the chair, or they didn’t finish the session. I even bought a kit and tried to cut his hair at home. IT WAS BAD!!! …